Nancy Shengmei Spigelmyre, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Meet Nancy

Nancy Spigelmyre, LMFT

Compassionate, authentic care for relationships, parenting, attachment, trauma, identity, and the transitions of life between cultures.

Licensed in IllinoisEnglish & MandarinOnline counseling
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Nancy’s approach

Healing through safety, connection, and secure relationships.

Nancy works with individuals, couples, and families experiencing relationship distress, parenting challenges, mood concerns, attachment issues, identity struggles, trauma, and life transition. She brings compassion, authenticity, and cross-cultural experience into a counseling relationship where clients can explore family dynamics, past relational wounds, and patterns that contribute to ongoing struggles.

Her approach is person-centered, attachment-based, experiential, and trauma informed. She believes that healing can grow through secure relationships and helps clients pay attention to emotions and thought processes in the present moment.

Born and raised in East Asia, Nancy understands the cultural stigma that can surround mental health as well as the courage it takes to seek support. She has moved multiple times between Asia and North America, shares a cross-cultural marriage with Curt, and brings particular empathy to clients living between cultures or navigating repeated transition.

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